I understand that it has been some time since I wrote on my blog, but rest assured that I haven’t been taking it easy. On the contrary, I have embarked on a few exciting ventures that I believe will pave the way to something truly remarkable. Stay tuned for the developments ahead!
I have not been active in e-commerce before, but I have started an online store that you can find at https://homedesignharmony.com/ When reading about creating a store, the selling point was that it can be open 24/7, and you only need to check it occasionally to see that it is running smoothly.
The other thing I am excited about is – I am going to be a coach – a parenting coach! I know – you are thinking, what?
Aloha! My name is Ruth Elayne, and I am from Hawaii. I look forward to being your SmartSteps Parenting Coach! Parenting is an exhilarating yet challenging journey where every step we take shapes our children’s futures. As a Parenting Coach, I’ve poured my heart and experience into crafting The SmartSteps Parenting Course, created to guide you through the hurdles that might dim the joy of your parenting adventure.
What makes me qualified to assist you? I don’t boast ten children or a formal degree in Child Psychology. Instead, I draw from raising four remarkable individuals who’ve carved their paths in inspiring ways. My daughter, a Doctor of Nursing, embodies compassion in her clinic and is nurturing her own family. My son, a Colonel in the US Air Force, serves his country with dedication, raising a vibrant brood of his own.
My third child is an enterprising soul, impacting education through software, and a humble member of the Tabernacle Choir, while my youngest, a talented graphic artist and musician known as Cubworld, brings creativity to life. These incredible humans, and my twelve grandchildren, have taught me invaluable lessons. We have instilled in them a desire to exercise their agency in making good choices.
But, it’s not just my family that equips me to guide you. With a Bachelor of Arts Degree and a rich history of writing for esteemed publications—particularly on Parenting—I’ve connected with countless parents facing diverse challenges. My articles have helped families navigating varying circumstances, fostering improved communication and harmony at home.
My parenting course will be on this blog and also my YouTube Channel.
I look forward to seeing you there.
My journey extends beyond the written word; I’ve hosted podcasts and broadcasts, sharing insights gleaned from friends across different corners of the globe, enriching conversations on diverse parenting styles and experiences.
In the SmartSteps Coaching Program, I tailor-make videos to address your specific parenting obstacles, allowing you unlimited access to them—whether you wish to view them solo, with your child, or alongside your partner. Your feedback is crucial as I embark on this inaugural launch, helping me refine and enhance the program for future parents.
I’m here to be your advocate, standing by your side through the toughest moments, unraveling challenges, and formulating personalized plans for success. Together, we’ll focus on one or two objectives, nurturing your confidence with each accomplishment, empowering you to be the best parent you aspire to be.
Join me on this transformative journey—I’m ready to support you every step of the way.
Again, the SmartSteps Parenting Coaching Course is still in the developing stages and I will post when it is ready to go.
Christmas 2023
I try to make a Christmas newsletter each year to summarize what we have done during the whole year. However, since I haven’t kept a great record of what we have done this year, I’ll just spell out some of the highlights:
Israel and Emi were married at a beautiful ceremony conducted by our son, Robert, in Shirley, Idaho. They moved to Portland Oregon and we miss them so much!
Sister Rachel Ileina Kinikini is serving a mission In the Auckland New Zealand Mission
Sister Eryn Moana Kongaika is serving in the Ohio Mission (Spanish Speaking)
We traveled to Arizona to go to Robbie Mateialona graduation from High School. Robbie Mateialona started college at BYU-Hawaii and we were able to travel to Hawaii for a week and got to see him in his element and ate some yummy Hawaiian food.
Our son, Joel became a member of the Tabernacle Choir after much testing and auditioning.
Zion Viliami #55 was playing football during his senior year of high school and broke the record for weight lifting.
Isileli Tupou got COVID as well as several others in our family (except me – yeah). ‘Isi was released as a stake patriarch but continues to be a sealer in the Oquirrh Mountain Temple. We now attend the Herriman 15th Tongan Ward with Mike Filipe as our Bishop (‘Isi’s nephew).
Anna, Jacob Tupou, and Eryn took Tongan classes at BYU Provo. Anna continues to take courses in film making at BYU Studio.
We also took a short trip to Las Vegas and stayed at our timeshare at Tahiti Village.
A few friends passed away, Marie Paongo, Darlene Stradling, Connie Moffat, Mote Mo’unga, and a friend Nomani Soakai. We were so sad to hear that they have left this earthly probation but look forward to our reunion in heaven.
We attended the Open House for the Saratoga Springs Temple with some of our grandchildren and it is so beautiful
We meet every month with my siblings for dinner to catch up with each other since Dad passed away. We also attended the Christensen Reunion to stay in touch with Mom’s family.
Both Liana and Siope changed jobs and seem to be doing fine.
I have become disillusioned with online money making so have decided to spend more time doing my artwork. I had a neighbor come to my home and purchase several pieces of my acrylic pours and that made me happy.
Thanksgiving was less than ideal, but we look forward to a
Merry Christmas and wish you all one too.
Ruth Elayne Kongaika
SmartSteps Parent Coaching
